Hollywood has always had a complicated and largely unsuccessful relationship with lasting love \u2014 the industry that produces the most romantic films in the world generating in its own corridors a divorce rate and a trail of broken partnerships that suggests the people making love stories for a living have not always found it easy to live one. Which is precisely why the couples who have made it \u2014 genuinely made it, not the managed, publicist-maintained version of togetherness that the industry occasionally produces for commercial reasons, but the real kind, the kind that shows up in the way two people look at each other after four decades and in the way they move through a room together and in the specific, quiet ease of people who have chosen each other so many times across so many years that the choosing has become simply who they are \u2014 stand out with the particular, almost startling force of something rare and genuine in a landscape full of imitation.<\/p>\n
Forty-five years is not an accident and not a performance and not the result of anything the industry provided or encouraged \u2014 it is the result of two people who decided on each other at a moment when everything around them was designed to make that decision difficult and who have renewed that decision, in the small daily ways that long love actually works, every year since without making a production of it or asking for credit or allowing the machinery of fame to reach the place where the real relationship lives. The love story Hollywood never managed to break is not remarkable because it survived \u2014 remarkable things survive all the time \u2014 but because it has remained, after forty-five years, the kind of love that still shows up in how two people walk side by side, like it is still the first day and they are still discovering that they chose exactly right.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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